baik diam .

C U TI  S E K O L A H

Macam syok je kan dah cuti sekolah ? hahaha tapi bila kita dah 17 tahun hidup ni kan , sebenarnya rasa "cuti" tu macam kureng la sikit . sebab apa ? sebab espiyeeeem homagad rasa nak belasah pastu simpan dalam peti yang ada 22 lock keys supaya tak payah hadap , boleh tak ?! hahaha but in reaity , semua benda ni kita tak oleh lari . kena rempuh jugak . so ah, apa apa je lah . buat the very best cukup ! hehe . lagi jadi pressure bila my older sister got straight A's . lagi cam . DUP DAP DUP DAP DUP DAP . Alhamdulilah ! she got straight A's, it's no surprise since she's a bright student , UNLIKE ADIK DIA NI HOH . ut i'm gonna take it as a challenge , or pembakar semangat . inshaAllah i'll get a result that will satisfy Abah and le whole family . Amin . 

actually , i wrote this post because i wanted to share a little bit on the things that have been running through my mind for a weeks . so do bare with me in this post okay . firstly , friendship. Kalau nak cakap pasal friendship , i myself have been through ups and downs about it . but alhamdulilah lebih ups daripada downs la . 

i started to have a best friend when i was 6 years old , her name was Faqihah . we were pretty close until the end of primary school but then in secondary school we were in different classes so we were a bit drifted apart . in form 1 , i started to have this group of friends whom i can call crazy and alhamdulilah we are still best friends till now . though some have changed states , schools and stuff; we would still find time like once or twice a year to gather all together . that is what friendship is all about . well at least , i hope-

now that i am in my last year of school , i reunited with my Faqihah(cuz we're in the same class again yolo swag) and our group has grown bigger and bigger . and one thing that made us closer is exo . hah- kpop ja minah ni , pusing mana cakap mesti keluaq kpop dia . i know korang cakap cam tu :p biar lah . hahaha . i'm just glad exo made us closer to each other . peace ^^V

 to have a good friend is to be a good friend first . you can't expect to have a good friend when you yourself is a bad friend . do you think you'd want a friend like yourself ? just once put yourself in your friends' shoes . if you think you deserve a good friend , but you treat your friends horribly , you truly need to recheck yourself . a good friend is a friend who listens , a good friend is a friend who jokes but knows their limits , a good friend is a friend who comforts , kalau kau rasa kau tak boleh nak korban sikit ego kau untuk kawan tu , tak payah lah . most importantly , a good friend is a good person .

as a good person , you don't go telling other people your problems like a psychopath , you don't tell people all the good stuff you know/have/can do in life because nobody likes a person who is riak . Allah , Rasul pun tak suka dik . as a good person , you should also know how to maintain a good relationship with humans and most importantly Allah . Maknanya , as a person you should know having friends means is to bring them closer to Allah , making them love doing ibadah together , so that all of us can enter Jannah , together . as a good person , you also need to make sure you are good in keeping secrets , especially other people's secrets . this is called amanah . a good person and a good friend knows their amanah or responsibility upon something when someone bestowed it up them . the most important thing in living , as a good person and friend , you should always be ikhlas . be friend with someone because you truly like them . if you don't like them , be friend with them because you can tolerate them . teach your heart to feel ikhlas with everyone . just like with our ibadah(amar ma'ruf nahi mungkar), make sure we feel ikhlas in performing all the ibadah and also make sure we feel ikhlas in leaving the things Allah forbids us to do . Now that's ikhlas , my friend . ikhlas is a powerful thing , if you think of it . just by being ikhlas Allah will grant us many many many pahala so that we can enter Jannah . So why is it so hard to feel ikhlas being friends with someone ? If you find somethings difficult to do in life , Allah has told us plenty of times , DOA . Doa is the key to everything . So basically just doa so that Allah soften up your heart to accept somebody and jauhkan syaitan daripada hati kecil kita ni . dia yg dok porak peranda kan hubungan manusia . Astaghfirullahalazim . 

i want to share a bit of what I think people nowadays are dealing with . kata dasar dia simple , manusia sekarang tak sedar dalam sedar . kenapa aku kata macam tu ? iye lah orang zaman dulu mmg tak sedar sebab jahil(jahil means tak tahu) , so bila tak tahu and tak sedar , kira boleh terima lagi la kan . but what about us , zaman sekarang yang dah sedar tapi masih buat buat tak sedar . Tak faham lagi ? okay , i'll give a simple situation; 

"Ali ni dah 20 tahun hidup , belajar ilmu agama mantap apa semua , tapi ! dkt twitter facebook masih mencarut , masih mengata sini sana , mengumpat orang , perli orang"

faham tak ? tak sedar dalam sedar . Orang yang macam ni yang memalukan us muslims . Astaghfirullahalazim :( walhal tahu apa hukumnya guna bahasa kesat , walhal tahu ada hukumnya mengata mengumpat orang . macam mana tu ?

memang sungguh, manusia tak lekang daripada melakukan kesalahan tapi sampai bila kita nak bergantung pada frasa tu , walhal dalam diri tak ada perubahan langsung . 

pernah dengar ni ? if you have , it's time for you to absorb what it means . The tongue is a dangerous weapon , so are you sure you want to keep letting your tongue talk freely without thinking ? are you sure you are willing to enter hell just because of your tongue ? it doesn't matter whether you say it or type it in a tweet or status or post or whatever .

Kalau dah tak tahan sangat-
Istighfar .
Kalau tak jadi jugak-
Maknanya hati kita keras . Jadi , doa Allah lembutkan hati kita .

Daripada cakap kosong , tak mendatangkan faedah- baik diam .
Daripada menyakiti orang lain- baik diam.

 aku bukanlah seorang ahli agama yang arif , aku bukanlah seorang insan yang punya iman yang tinggi . tapi aku cuma sekadar berpesan apa yang aku rasa , secara umum . bukan untuk kena dek batang hidung sesiapa- jauh sekali niat . 


p/s: perli , umpat , mengata , post gambar-gambar macros perdana menteri ke orang yang difitnah ke orang yang masuk lokap ke obama ke ahli ulamak ke (alahhh yg famous-famous semua tu , yg kita rasa tak dosa sebab semua orang buat tu) dkt laman-laman sesawang ni pun dicatit jugak oleh malaikat kiri kanan kita tau . so make sure nak sampaikan sebarang pendapat atau maklumat biarlah professional . jangan sampai kita kena cari mereka dekat padang masyhar sudah . Wallahualam :(


Assalamualaikum !